Or we could just not make this an issue to be divided over.
Then, Scott, why do you keep bringing it up? This isn't the first time, and you've only recently joined. If anyone is trying to divide us over this topic, it's you. However, I don't think you're trying to divide as much as you're trying to get everyone here to speak the way you want to speak, instead of having rational discussion over the matter. I don't find you very welcoming to speak with when you flat-out IGNORED what Ellie just said to you.
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For example you quoted another person in the thread, and expressed your agreement:
The term Brethren is used 229 times after the Gospels but the term Christian is used only one
Ellie responded:
the points Tim made were much more sound than doing a key word search and counting the number of times a word is used (I'll add that I've seen people use that method to claim that you don't need to repent to be saved just because the word isn't used as much as the words "believe" or "faith" in the new testament. It's not a sound method of rightly dividing the truth--you can create false doctrines and make false assumptions by doing that)
You then responded to her by repeating the same thing without addressing her argument:
let's use the most common identification in the Bible
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This is a pattern we've seen many times before because we've had this forum for many years now. It's someone who comes here and thinks that, from the moment they join, they are going to start changing everything that we say and do, and refuse to actually discuss a matter to reason it out. You are showing this exact same pattern, as well as another dangerous pattern, which is making decisions about what one believes based on counting words from a search engine, rather than understand the philosophy of the doctrine through the interpretation of the context, and that is somewhat expected since you put such a heaven emphasis on you being a "avid student of science," perhaps looking for statistics rather than meaning. (I am unsure yet, but I can only go by what you have shown me so far.)
Now, if that is not accurate analysis of what you are doing, then please, give us something that does not reflect that so we can have a better impression of you. Because the following you wrote, is giving us major warning signs that you are here to start contention, not here to have a peaceful discussion between brethren...
I find it very unsettling that I merely explained why I chose "other" and have no problem with others using the term Christian, and the welcome I get is misused, out of context false reproof and condemnation for things that I didn't even say. The welcoming committee needs to brush up on applying the scriptures and walking in the Spirit of Christ rather than exercising (completely wrong) corrective responses.
The only thing I'm agreeing with you so far on is that you selected a proper adjective, in that your conversation is probably best described using the word "unsettling." In what way is correction wrong?
Correction is grievous unto him that forsaketh the way: and he that hateth reproof shall die.
-Pro 15:10
You have attempted to correct us, so why is it that you're "correction" is right, and our correction is wrong? Ellie gave you reason why your statements were incorrect to Scripture, and you did not give any counter-reason for it; you just repeated the same narrative over and over.
Part of the reason that I believe you haven't gotten much response yet on this forum is because others have seen this attitude in your writing; they usually keep quiet when they sense danger, and wait to read more before commenting further. I was quiet for the same reason, and more evidence is shown by your sarcasm:
Thanks for such a warm welcome.
I had hoped to find the holy brethren here and maybe fellowship among the saints.
This is passive aggressiveness, which is a form of murmuring that God hates. Why do you have this entitled attitude with us? What is it that we did wrong to you for us to deserve that? Murmuring is where you withhold the hatred in your heart, while making snide comments that are designed to try to make others feel bad for daring to question what you believe. That's not the attitude we hold here among our brethren; perhaps you may be used to that with whoever you fellowship with, I don't know, but it's not how we operate here.
If you want us to treat you a certain way, and we are not doing what is right, then by all means, SHOW us a better example.