Chris makes a great point when he said it is a day that the woman gets worship. For a man most I have talk to over the years hated everything about marriage tradition. They could not wait to get it over with. When my brother was getting married, they sat there for about 3 hours alone to pick wedding invitations. I walk by laughing at my brother on how bored he was. He ask me to pick one so he can get it over with. I told him who not post invitation on fb save so much time and cost. It was as if I kicked a holy sacred cow, his wife look at me with anger and said that way is so unpersonal . His wedding at the end was a disaster most of everyone was playing on phone and are grandma went to hospital where she ended up dieing.