My hope is that he's still okay; he's been emailing me rapid fire for a while, and then he suddenly stopped. If I had to guess, his dad probably stripped his internet rights. As far as I understand, based on what he's told me, he father is really abusive. But yeah, Jeanne's right, that's what he did. Sometimes I make posts and don't receive a response for a few days or weeks. I think he got the impression that we're all watching this forum every minute of every hour, which is just not the case because we've got a lot to do.
I don't know if Mat is reading all the posts in the thread or not, but that would be important to get the context, and also to understand there are many people who come here, make a post or two, and don't stay for a variety of reasons. It doesn't matter how "nice" we are to someone, if we tell them the truth and they don't like it, they leave, and there's nothing we can do about it.