34 Women should remain silent in the churches. They are not allowed to speak, but must be in submission, as the law says. 35 If they want to inquire about something, they should ask their own husbands at home; for it is disgraceful for a woman to speak in the church.
I came across a preacher who says that in 1 Cor 14:34-36, it only applies to women who have husbands,
he argues that because it says the plural "Women" here in context, only refers to the "they" of the next verse which says "If they want to inquire about something, they should ask their own husbands at home"
Now, for me, I don't agree. And this is my argument to that.
I can see that the scripture is merely saying the for women(as a whole) who have questions, the person to ask is your husband.
Whether or not all the women have husbands or not, is not the point being made.
He goes on to 1 Timothy 2:11-15
11 Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection.
12 But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.
13 For Adam was first formed, then Eve.
Here, he says, that because Adam and Eve were husband and wife, therefore 'the woman' refers only to those who are married.
I found these 2 arguments to be a weak effort to try and twist context,
Is it so hard to just read a text and take it literally.
As for this argument, I would argue back saying that the fact that Adam and Eve are husband and wife is irrelevant to the point that women are not to teach.
The point is gender has a role to play authority in both our own families and the family of the church.
He also uses the Gal 3:28 argument that we are all equal and one in the spirit, and spiritual gifts are unbiased to gender.
I find this to be a pointless argument, because even though, yes in the spirit there is no gender, but the point still remains, that in the flesh we still have 2 different genders, and therefore have God established roles to function as in those 2 genders.
Why is it so hard for people to accept this....
So many preachers not wanting to hurt their women's opinions of biblical doctrine.
Why so hard to just let the man lead, he does it already in the family, they agree with that, but as soon as it's the church, oh no, no, no, anybody can teach and lead.
I'm having to unbrainwash my fianc