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« on: October 12, 2020, 11:28:32 AM »
Well, this is a separate article I have had mind to write, but was not sure when I was going to get around to it. This is a continual problem I see in many people who have written to me.
You sister-in-law may have been wrong in rebuking the fact that you do not attend a church building, but if you all have put off fellowshipping together in assembly with the church (i.e. the body of believers), then you are in disobedience to the Word of God, and on that point, she would be correct. Thus, your sister-in-law was saying the right thing for the wrong reasons, due to her ignorance of Scripture, but the example that your family is currently setting gives her the impression of disobedience, and that is not a good example to set when that women sounds like she needs to hear the truth of the Gospel.
I have quoted Heb 10:25 to many people in emails, and most of them tend to ignore me. Because they can't find a building, therefore, they just give up on fellowship, which is nonsensical in a day where the internet exists. Even the leavened church buildings have extended their reach online (at least, many of them have over the past decade), and many options are available, but when it comes down to it, the three main reasons I have seen for Christians not to look is resentment, hopelessness, and laziness, neither of which could be Biblically justified, and all three are also qualities that creep up on those who do not assemble with the church in the first place, so it becomes downward spiral.
For, brethren, ye have been called unto liberty; only use not liberty for an occasion to the flesh, but by love serve one another.
-Gal 5:13
Many have written me unconcerned about whether or not they assemble together with the church because they have liberty, but we ought to be cautious that we do not use our liberty for an occasion unto the flesh, meaning that it is to serve our personal feelings and opinions in selfishness. I am the first to admit I am guilty of doing these things, even concerning the assembly of the church for a number of years, which is why I try to exercise patience with those who do not assemble together, but I see the problem, I know the reasons, and I know the excuses, which is why I started up a ministry online, to solve those problems, address those reasons, and take away those excuses.
Therefore, knowing that options are available to your family, the effort to solve that problem starts with you. Again, this is coming from someone who has been down that road, but has had to do an awful lot more work than just simply choosing where to meet up.
The questions I have that are left unanswered would be:
1. Why does the husband not assemble anywhere?
2. What options is the husband open to considering?
3. Why have you not pressed the matter for discussion?
4. Have you looked into the church building your sister-in-law attends to explain to her why you have not assembled together in such a place where she attends?
I remember there being more questions I had when I was reading through this, but now I can't remember them. I need to write an article on this simply because this is a problem that needs to be addressed, and sadly, most churchgoers do not understand the reasons why it need to be addressed, other than their pastor said so because he wants their tithe money. There are important Biblical reasons why we need fellowship with one another, and there are a number of members we have added to our church just this past year who have learned that lesson, and understand much more clearly why it is so important, not just for themselves, but also for others.